Does the distance matter with the relationship?
At this end of the final year, I heard a lovely news that two friends have just had new boyfriends.The couples, whose natinolities differ each other, will soon separate after their graduation.
Both of them called themselves stupid because they thought they would break up with their boyfriends when their new lives start in different places.
Does the distance matter with the relationship?
I myself have kept a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for three years.
There are several disadvanteges; long time no see, time differences, and etc.
But I believe that they are only excuses to break up and the real reasons are somehow different.
I broke up with my ex when I and he lived in the cities next to each other. Now I and my boyfriend have been together even though there is a long, long distance (Japan to U.K.).
From my experience, it is possible to keep the relationship as long as the couple can believe each other and keep their main promises. On the other hand, It is possible to break up if the couple cannot believe or understand each other.
But, in fact, many couples have broken up under the circumstance of long distance...
Then, does it suggest that the distance matters?
Anyway it happens no matter what situation you are in.
I only wish good luck on my friends' future***
posted by sue @ 9:49 PM
2 Comments:
i am sad that i will be leaving my boyfriend for overseas studies soon. and though one yr may be a shortwhile but i really hope that nothing bad will happen.
thanks for the consolation that you and ur bf did work out after so many years. =)
It is nice to hear that you feel a bit better now! I wish you good luck too ; )
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